Tuesday, December 11, 2007


i am not a woman but i really want to know, one day, how it feels like to be under pre-menstrual stress.

it appeared like, whatever you said was replied with sheer annoyance. when a woman is suffering from PMS, making her the queen is barely sufficient.

she pushes the guy to the corner with every comment and leaves him with no room to move. even down-to-the-knees pacification will barely work. for the guy, escaping is not a choice either, because he loves her too much to just leave her alone. what can he do then?

being sarcastic is not what i want here. it's just that, it's really not easy when put in such a situation and it takes a lot for a guy to understand how a woman feels at this period of the month. so, the best way for the guy to learn is to be a woman, experience menstruation and PMS, and understand how it really feels like right? then, he can best empathize with the woman, and make things easier for both of them.

anyway, do you agree that 'all guys are horny bastards'?

i think it is undeniable that men are, innately, more drawn towards sexual pleasures, and that women, quite constrastingly, craves love more than sex (quoting you). while i have heard of some female friends who have had sexual relationships with several men, they all ended up devastated and ashamed of their acts, who all resulted from a possible lack of attention and love. men, however, as impression holds, could be very different. sex and sleaze could be everything they want (as impression tells you). afterall, how difficult is it to find a man in geylang, or desperate men at orchard towers?

however, consider the following situation, frequently depicted in chinese drama serials, which i think illustrates the kind of dilemma that men could face.

you work in ABC Corporation, as the budding Business Manager to be. You currently hold the position of Sales Manager, but you are touted to be promoted in the next year or so to the BM after putting in sheer hard work and achieving all sales targets for the past year. One day, you met your HR Manager (the person in charge of your promotion), and he asked you out together with other people from the upper echelons of the company for a get together at a KTV.

you know how things function in a KTV. hostesses, booze and sleaze. but you view your promotion as something too much to lose and rejecting the invitation will be tantamount to disrespect. unwillingly and doubtfully, you agree to attend the gathering.

so there you go. at the KTV, you pay $350 (like the rest of the managers), for many bottles of liquor, but more notably, 2 scantily-clad hostesses, who look like they were ready to devour you in one mouth, by your side. you felt uneasy, dirty, and guilty, for you have not told your girlfriend that you were going to a KTV, and worse still, not informing her that you have 2 hot-babes by your side. before you knew it, liquor started to fill the glasses, the girls started fondling you and the night soon became cloudy and hazy under the influence of booze and women.

what happens after that is unimportant now. whether or not the guy ends up waking up in the morning with 2 naked girls by his side, by the traditional Asian code-of-conduct, and the women's heart, he has already committed the greatest sin of all times.

the question is, will you allow yourself to end up like that? will you do the 'right' thing? will you risk your career for dignity and in some cases, chastity? will you tell your girlfriend?

will you?

ideally, you would do everything right. you would have rejected the invitation, and spent the night at your girlfriend's place cuddling her to sleep. you would have explained to your bosses that you are a clean man. you would have told them to fuck off and go fucking if they want, but leave you alone. but that's, if everything goes right.

i don't know what will happen to me, but i seriously hope that this does not happen to me. working in the healthcare sector will probably see me out of these troubles, but getting there, is a big big question.

sigh. being a guy also got problem. being a girl also got problem. do you face problems being a tranny?

disturbed you at 10:52 PM